How do you feel when someone says no to you? Do you immediately fall into a victim zone, get angry or start feeling worthless? If so, that’s completely understandable. We all want things to go right for us and as smoothly as possible. We all want people to like us, to agree with us, to understand our point of view. But this is not always the case. Although as souls we all came here from the same source, which is a pure love and light, we are currently living in the physical bodies and having an individual experiences. On this earthly plane we experience our differences and that’s the beauty of being a human. There is so much beauty, love and peace around us, if we choose to see it. But of course, there are also challenges, difficult situations and people who don’t agree with us and sometimes reject us. Suddenly this experience on Earth can become a struggle. Therefore I’ve decided to blog about rejection today and show you how to start looking at it from a different perspective.
It’s the point of view
I have experienced rejection far too many times in my life. I have been told many things which hurt me greatly and it took me years to to let them go. Strong words like: I am not good enough, smart enough, I don’t have the right education or I didn’t come from a family with a certain status made me feel worthless and very upset. When I was younger I believed all those labels. I accepted all these lies within the whole level of my being. After a while when I realised I am the creator of my own reality, none of the above could control me anymore. I said to myself: “This is my life and only I decide what I want to do with it!” What other people think of you and tell you about you has nothing to do with you! It is purely their opinion. Don’t let anybody the power to control your life this way. Step out of the victim zone by rejecting rejections, labels and lies. Choose to see them only as someone’s point view, because that’s what they really are. Whether somebody rejects you at work or in a relationship, it doesn’t matter. Don’t dwell on it for too long. Your time here is very precious. Accept it and focus on what’s important to you.
New Chapter
Every rejection is a closure of one chapter of the book and the beginning of a new one. It’s time to turn the page and stop re-reading the one which has already ended. Start looking at rejection as a fresh, new start of something special and exciting. When one door closes, another one opens. We all have to go through certain situations in life, sometimes unpleasant, to learn more about ourselves and realise what really matters to us. Rejection is an opportunity to explore and learn more about you. Get to know yourself and begin the new chapter of your life by getting excited what is going to follow next.
Universal redirection
I believe rejection is a universal redirection. When someone says no to you, the higher power of the Universe is actually protecting you from a place which isn’t useful for your soul’s growth. If something doesn’t work out in your life the way you want, trust and know the Universe is redirecting you to something which is far better for your particular soul’s path. Every time something doesn’t work out in my life the way I planned it, I know there is something so much better coming my way. And there always is!
I thought to keep!
“When you give yourself permission to communicate what matters to you in every situation, you will have peace despite rejection or disapproval. Putting a voice to your soul helps you to let go of the negative energy of fear and regret!” ~Shannon L. Alder